First off, why follow what others think  be yourself, are you like in high school?.
Second, you'll be surprised at how many guys do like women with muscles.

Many people will never ever admit liking muscular women, though we can see in outdoor videos a lot of men pretending not to look but staying around as if nothing was happening.

You like muscular women like others like small, tall, voluptuous women. And for each type, others will say "hugh...what do you find attractive in a [choose your type] woman".

As told above, be yourself. Just choose the people to whom you disclose your attraction, to prevent harsh and unpleasant reactions.

Bigger the better, thats what I say.  I appreciate all fitness and fbbers though.

I have thought about this question, and have not liked my attraction to strong muscular women mostly for the reason that most women like aggressive males, even the women I see at the gym who are muscular go out with someone who is bigger or just loud.  I would like to just be in it for the fun.   I am actually naturally muscular, and love to work out, but I am not a loud aggressive type, which women seem to prefer. I find very few women who appreciate men enamored with female muscle and who admire it when the men themselves are not dominant/aggressive.  If I could turn the switch off  I would, but as I said in an earlier post, this was wired into my brain at a very early age seeing muscular girls in bikinis.

It sounds as though you are going thru what many fbb admirers have, a desire to start going 'beyond' the norm and that is what is depressing you. This whole genre is quite interesting really. I think Speed made a great point it is just how you are wired and wherever it leads you will need to accept it and deal with it in the best way possible.

I have always been an athlete myself so from an early age was accordingly attracted to athletic females at a "normal" natural fit level. There was always that group of hot extremely feminine yet athletic tomboy type girls in school, gymnasts, cheerleaders, track, etc. that I was naturally drawn to and have never felt a need to go beyond that level, and there was never really any sort of 'female domination' element to it, so the wiring just kept that level as my ideal preference the same. My wiring has just regulated it automatically, amazing how it works but that's just the way it does.

Funny thing about it though, I was talking about this subject with another friend who's an admirer of the bigger girls, and he could not for the life of him understand how I could feel girls like Lauren Beckham, Jen Rish, Mavi, Rachel are attractive and I felt the exact same about him who prefers Colette G, Iris, Yaxeni types, it's like 2 totally different worlds. 


But for those who's wiring does take them out of the norm and to extremes I can totally understand how part of them may feel uncomfortable simply because there is only a very small % of people who find that level attractive on a female, and many who even feel it's weird including the methoids, etc. needed to attain those levels.

Personally I say to each their own, dig whatever you're wired to dig, but at the same time I can totally see how this young man could be going thru some issues if his wiring seems to be "ramping up" beyond a Macey Boudreau, since you can't really go beyond what is already perfection or it obviously becomes 'less' perfect, but again, to each his (or her) own.     



maceyboudreaufan1 wrote on Sep 17^th, 2009 at 6:07am:

funny I always thought it would be very difficult to actually meet these women as they themselves are a minority and I thought the muscular women get creeped out when you mention that you have a strong interest in their musculature.

Well who do you think dates and marries all the fit muscular females, of which there are literally millions of? It's obviously guys who dig fit athletic females, and those athletic females obviously dig those guys just the same, it's a mutual thing.

I'm not quite sure why you think they are a minority unless you mean the most extreme levels. There are TONS of females at Figure/Fitness level muscle, it's only the highest enhanced level FBB which is very rare.

Remember, the love for fit athletic women is VERY popular and mainstream it's only the extreme levels which fall into the small niche'. Also keep in mind the mainstream accepted levels are the most important because that's what fuels the entire industry. The more xtreme levels would not (or barely) exist without the more highly accepted levels.

Nevertheless, you need to decide whether you're going to be one of the playas (who actually dates and associates on an equal basis with the popular levels)...or, if you're just going to be a typical extreme admirer or "schmoo" as those who prefer those levels consider themselves. Again not that one is 'better' than the other it's just a matter of whatever you're wired for and/or how you choose to handle it.




maceyboudreaufan1 wrote on Nov 1^st, 2009 at 5:54am: